Rejection.. Understanding its peculiarity.

This morning I want to write about the word "Rejection" and how can it possibly affect one's perception about his inner self and esteem. Wanting or doing something sometimes causes us too much bravery and courage. But since we are motivated to do it and because of the desire to make a person happy, we face the challenge and gave all that we have. But what will happen if despite of this bravery that we have revealed and despite of the consequences that we are about to face, we've met the curse of rejection instead? Mostly we feel belittle and self doubt will slowly covers our mind claiming our inner self that we did something wrong. We are beginning to think that maybe our action doesn't in sync to suppose to be motive which is to make that person happy. After that rational reasoning, what happen next? We tend to never face the curse of rejection again. Hence, as simple as that we never do the same thing again which we think beforehand as such a big mistake. Pardon my reasoning but I'm writing this in behalf of my own understanding and thinking.

Circumstances are so ironic indeed. We feared to commit the same mistakes so we never do it again. But how peculiar people can be? When they see the changes in us, they begin to question us "what's wrong?" Why you are now like this and like that? But can I also ask you, "Isn't this want to you have wanted?" I don't understand and I can no longer understand. Now I believed that we will really feel how important a person to us if he/she is no longer there doing those things that once we have just rejected. What will happen to that person who was once rejected and now longed to be back again? Confusion surrounds his/her inner soul. Can no longer think the next move for there's like a solid proof that covers the heart disallowing any forms of attacks causing another pain and sadness. The question is how to be brave again and how to do things that was once rejected? How to ease the fear with trust and courage one more time? Finding answers is quite difficult but all I know the greatest key to find the answers is "Time". Time can heal and time will unleash the imprisoned heart out from distress and disappointments.